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Squatted Kneeling (my all time favorite position)
How to: Squat on the balls of your feet, with your legs spread apart about shoulder-width apart. She sits in your lap, facing you, straddling your legs with hers, while mounting your erect penis and bringing your upper bodies close together. The upshot of kneeling is that your penis can better stimulate her clitoris and labia. 

Squatted Kneeling (my all time favorite position)

How to: Squat on the balls of your feet, with your legs spread apart about shoulder-width apart. She sits in your lap, facing you, straddling your legs with hers, while mounting your erect penis and bringing your upper bodies close together. The upshot of kneeling is that your penis can better stimulate her clitoris and labia. 


Spoon, Facing
How to: This variation of the traditional spoon can be assumed from man-on-top or woman-on-top missionary positions without interrupting intercourse. From missionary, simply turn onto your sides in unison, using your arms to gently support your upper bodies. 

Spoon, Facing

How to: This variation of the traditional spoon can be assumed from man-on-top or woman-on-top missionary positions without interrupting intercourse. From missionary, simply turn onto your sides in unison, using your arms to gently support your upper bodies. 


Seated Wheelbarrow 
How to: This position is nearly identical to the standing wheelbarrow, except you sit in a chair or on the edge of the bed. Your movement is limited, but you have good penetration and great close-up of her rear

Seated Wheelbarrow 

How to: This position is nearly identical to the standing wheelbarrow, except you sit in a chair or on the edge of the bed. Your movement is limited, but you have good penetration and great close-up of her rear


Rear Entry, Standing
How to: Stand behind her and have her bend over at the waist, keeping her upper body parallel to the floor. Hold her hips for support and enter from behind. Standing up gives you more thrusting power and allows you to caress her clitoris for extra stimulation. 

Rear Entry, Standing

How to: Stand behind her and have her bend over at the waist, keeping her upper body parallel to the floor. Hold her hips for support and enter from behind. Standing up gives you more thrusting power and allows you to caress her clitoris for extra stimulation. 


Rear Entry, Kneeling
How to: A.k.a. “doggy style.” Position yourself so you’re kneeling behind her, then insert yourself and remain between her legs either upright or leaning over so your body drapes over hers. Great for deep penetration, and it allows you to hit her G-spot while stroking her clitoris, breasts, hair, and back—just don’t pet her like a dog. 

Rear Entry, Kneeling

How to: A.k.a. “doggy style.” Position yourself so you’re kneeling behind her, then insert yourself and remain between her legs either upright or leaning over so your body drapes over hers. Great for deep penetration, and it allows you to hit her G-spot while stroking her clitoris, breasts, hair, and back—just don’t pet her like a dog. 


Seated Rear Entry
How to: While you sit on a chair or the edge of the bed, she squats down on your erect penis. She controls movement and penetration, which can be quite deep and pleasurable for both of you. You’re free to caress her breasts and upper body. 

Seated Rear Entry

How to: While you sit on a chair or the edge of the bed, she squats down on your erect penis. She controls movement and penetration, which can be quite deep and pleasurable for both of you. You’re free to caress her breasts and upper body. 


The Spoon (a personal favorite)
How to: The classic Sunday morning sex position, the spoon is highly romantic and allows for a slow, luxurious ride in which you’re both likely to last a long time. Enter the spoon while you’re both on one side, facing in the same direction. Have her draw her knees up slightly, then tuck up behind her pelvis so you can enter from behind. 

The Spoon (a personal favorite)

How to: The classic Sunday morning sex position, the spoon is highly romantic and allows for a slow, luxurious ride in which you’re both likely to last a long time. Enter the spoon while you’re both on one side, facing in the same direction. Have her draw her knees up slightly, then tuck up behind her pelvis so you can enter from behind. 

1- Start slow

Kiss your way down her body and tease her thighs and buttocks for a while before you make contact with any part of her genitalia. This will turn her on before you start the real action. Get close so that she thinks you’re going to zero in on her at any second, but don’t give in immediately.

2- Warm her up

Before you remove her underwear, breathe hot air through it against her genital area. Breathe softly but warmly for short bursts at a time. You can alternate between doing this and kissing her thighs and stomach.

3- Don’t dive in

When you begin to kiss and lick her vulva, work your way in slowly from the outside. Start by licking the outer edges of the outer lips (labia), then very slowly spread them, and lick and kiss the inner lips, and around the vagina. Do this gently, as though you were still teasing her. You’ll work your way up to more intense action eventually.

4- Wait for the clitoris

Try to hold off from coming in contact with her clitoris for as long as you can, even as you kiss her labia and vagina. When you do begin to lick it, do it softly, and focus on the clitoral hood (just above the clitoris), since most women prefer indirect clitoral contact before they’re fully aroused.

5- Lick the alphabet

If you’re not sure which strokes are best to approach the clitoris, try Sam Kinison’s famous suggestion and lick the shape of every letter in the alphabet as a means of offering a wide variety of approaches. Make them wide from time to time to cover the whole genital area, and make them small at other times, centering on the clitoris itself.

6- Suck it up

As she becomes more aroused, you can gently suck her clitoris into your mouth and flick your tongue over it. This combines suction with a much faster rhythm. Women like that.


7- Listen for her reaction

Listen carefully to what she says and the sounds she makes. If she sounds excited, keep doing what you’re doing for as long as you can. When she seems to respond less, it’s time to try a new stroke.

8- Hum

You’ve heard of fellatio being called a “hummer,” but it works just as well if you close your mouth and hum against her clitoris every once in a while too.

9- Grab hold

Hold on to her thighs or her backside so you can rub yourself against her well. From there you can also reach up and caress her breasts or, if she likes, place your hands near her mouth so she can suck on your fingers.

10- Get your whole face into it

Someone once said that if your eyelids aren’t sticky after giving a woman oral sex, you didn’t do all you could to please her. Use your nose, cheeks and chin (clean shaven; no one wants sandpaper down there), and move them around. Even if you’re just using your mouth, shaking your face from side to side and up and down will enhance friction in a great way.

11- Use your fingers

Penetrating your woman with one finger and making a “come here” motion is a great way to locate her G-spot, which will raise the ante of her orgasm. Even if you don’t know where her G-spot is (it’s good to have some experience with it beforehand), just penetrating her as you lick her. You can also alternate between penetrating her with your penis and pleasuring her orally.

12- Maintain eye contact

You may lose track of what you’re doing in the excitement of it all, but it’s good to make eye contact with your lover, and give her a smile and a look that says, “There’s nowhere else I’d rather be.”

13- Know when to continue

When your woman gets close to orgasm, make sure you do everything she wants you to. No matter if you have a kink in your neck or your arm’s falling asleep, keep doing exactly what you’re doing until you’re sure she’s had her orgasm.

14- Know when to stop

The clitoris is extremely sensitive after climax, so when her orgasm is over, you don’t want to keep licking it as intensely as you were before she reached orgasm. As she climaxes, continue licking, but gently taper off as her reaction begins to mellow.

blow her away

While all of these are useful ideas, the real magic of oral pleasure is doing the unexpected, so as you put these ideas to use, remember to be spontaneous as often as you can.

And keep in mind that you must be enthusiastic at all times — if you want her to go down on you willingly, then she deserves the same in return.


(Source: girlslovesextoo)


How to: Insert yourself into your partner in the missionary position, but lie across her pelvis, slightly askew, while still supporting your weight on your elbows. 

She’ll enjoy this because it stimulates the side of her vaginal walls, something she normally doesn’t feel.

How to: Insert yourself into your partner in the missionary position, but lie across her pelvis, slightly askew, while still supporting your weight on your elbows. 

She’ll enjoy this because it stimulates the side of her vaginal walls, something she normally doesn’t feel.