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Today is June 5th, 2013 and my one year anniversary with my wonderful husband. When I first met my husband, I just knew there was something different about him, something that no one else had ever given me before. He was charming, charming in the way that no matter what mood I was in or how stubborn to initially trust him as I was, I couldn’t stop thinking about him. I couldn’t get enough. Loving him was something that I couldn’t help; it was instantaneous because from that first phone call I felt like I had known him my entire life and I missed him. He didn’t need to use pick up lines, or tell me all the things that normally win over a girl because I was instantly his. When we had our first kiss, the first thing I said to him was “I missed this” and he laughed because it was our first kiss. I didn’t miss kissing in general, I missed kissing him.  He felt like he had always been the love of my life but we just hadn’t found each other yet. Everything about our relationship folded into place like it had been designed for us from the beginning, and we started believing that it had. Every heart break we had experienced in the past ended so that we were one step closer to finding each other. All I went through led me to you and I would do it all over again. I never believed that things happen for a reason but how this turned out, removed all my doubts. Brandon, you’re perfect for me because everything you do makes me smile and every second spent with you is worthwhile. You’re perfect because when you laugh, I laugh too and because everyone can see I’m devoted to you. I love your eyes and the way they shine and because the way you hold me sends shivers down my spine. I know a lot of people had doubts about us getting married so quickly, and at such a young age but all I can say to them is I get to spend the best of my years with you. When we hit our 20 year anniversary we will only be 40 years old, and on our 40th wedding anniversary we will be 60 years old, still living our lives to the fullest. It is a beautiful mystery, how people find one another, how we can fall in love. We don’t know how it happens but it does, all the pieces fit together and the world stops, and nothing else matters. You are an essential part of my happiness, and looking back at this past year I still can’t believe how much we have grown as people and as a couple.

I love you more than this entire giant paragraph can even begin to explain and here is to one year down, forever to go. Happy Anniversary babe, and I promise to love you today and every day for the rest of our lives.

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For those of you who wanted this.

For those of you who wanted this.

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# 1 Sex causes the body to release endorphins, which can lighten pains


# 2 On average, people who have sex 3 times a week are perceived to look 4 to 7 years younger

# 3 A Scottish study found that after orgasm, people had an easier time with public speaking

# 4 A poll found that those in the most conservative and religious states tend to look at online pornography more often


# 5 Humans, along with dolphins and bonobo chimps, are the only living things that have sex for pleasure


# 6 34% of men have told lies in order to have sex, versus 10% of women


# 7 1 in 50 people claim to have had sex in an airplane


# 8 Greek couples have sex the most times per year at 138; Japanese couples are at the bottom of the list with 45

# 9 Studies show than men who have sex more often tend to have a longer life expectancy


# 10 Women who read romance novels tend to have twice as many lovers as women who do not


# 11 Sex burns an average of 100 calories per session


# 12 The first couple shown in bed together on prime time TV were Fred and Wilma Flintstone


# 13 In Hong Kong, a wife who gets cheated on is legally allowed to kill her husband- but only with her bare hands


# 14 The smell of pumpkin pie, licorice, chocolate, and donuts increase the blood to a man’s genitals


# 15 The typical person spends about 600 hours between the ages of 20 and 70 having sex


And when I’m thinking about having sex with you, nothin else matters.

And when I’m thinking about having sex with you, nothin else matters.

Friendships, relationships, and marriages all take two people to make it work. People take for granted who they have in their life and all they have given by that person until they are no longer there. If you have a problem in your friendship, relationship, or marriage don’t stay silent come forward and fix the problem before it becomes something you can’t get over and it ends up destroying it anyway. Don’t be afraid to go to counseling to save what you have someone, to work on better communication, or get over an incident maybe one of you did to the other. I know far too many people that have lost friends, relationships, and gotten divorced because it was one sided. One person put in all the effort, time, energy, and emotion and didn’t get anything back. Love and cherish what you have with someone whether a friend, boyfriend/girlfriend, or husband/wife because one day they may walk way or pass on and you’ll regret never trying harder and treating them better.

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I’m very blessed to have a husband who appreciates me. Women feel sexy from feeling attractive and desired. Men feel sexy from having sex. If you can strike a balance where the man is having sex a lot and the woman is feeling desired enough to have sex, then you’ve figured out the secret to a marriage that’s alive.

Kate Beckinsale

this should have been in my wedding vows

this should have been in my wedding vows