lapdance or songs to strip to? I feel like all the songs I feel the sexiest to are awkward ones to actually dance to
Anonymous

I will give you my personal list but I also want to say that it is essential that you feel beautiful,sexy, and relaxed while you are giving a lapdance or stripping and if you have songs that make you feel this way then you should stick with those. Just because you pick a notoriously “sexy” song to dance to does not mean you will be sexy dancing to it. If you don’t feel sexy with any other songs, it will show in your appearance.

http://girlslovesextoo.tumblr.com/post/63249435977/do-u-have-more-dubstep-type-songs-youd-strip-to

http://girlslovesextoo.tumblr.com/post/63058089858/what-are-the-rest-of-your-stripper-songs-i-like-that

So lately I've been touching my boyfriends butt during sex and he said it feels good. I've like touched his butthole and I think he liked it, but idk if I should go further/how and stuff.
Anonymous

If he likes it, and has made it clear that he does, then go for it! Prostate stimulation is an amazing sensation for men who are willing to give it a try.He may thank you for doing it :D

Why exactly are you on bed rest?
Anonymous

I started having preterm labor at 24 weeks, and since we do not want my son coming 16 weeks early I have been on bed rest to help stop the contractions and hopefully to keep him from trying to make more escape attempts. I also have a placenta abruption which is very fragile in Jude’s survival as well.

How do you know when a guy likes you (like high school)? I don't personally know whether he likes me or not because I'm not exactly sure if he's flirting or not and if so if I should push for something more? Please help):
Anonymous

Sadly there is no quick test or something to do to find out 100% for sure yes or no if he likes you or not. If you want to know, ask him. Asking him will get you a direct answer and that way you’re not constantly trying to figure out what is going on. Many men wish women were more direct with them versus beating around the bush, so if you ask him and he does like you he may like you more for being so direct. 

How did you come up with your sons name?
Anonymous

His middle name of Andrew is a family name on husband’s side of the family as well as his own middle name. For his first name, Jude, we are die hard Beatles fans and wanted to name our child after a song we both love and could sing to him throughout his life. He is named after “Hey Jude”

Favourite porn sites? And favourite videos?
Anonymous

I love Pornhub and XNXX

I really like a lot of different porn depending on my mood but this by far is one of my favorites.

http://girlslovesextoo.tumblr.com/post/66889966086/if-there-is-a-porn-i-have-masturbated-too-many

How long should I wait before sleeping with my boyfriend?
Anonymous

When you no longer have any question on whether you should or not, and not sooner than that. If you have the urge to ask a complete and utter stranger when to do it, you’re not ready in my opinion. Sex is something that should come naturally, without regret and doubt, if you think you may have either of those then I urge you or anyone else to wait. 

is it weird that my boyfriend can get me off soo much better than i can myself? isn't it usually the other way around?
Anonymous

I am the same way. For me personally I can masturbate and receive pleasure but I have never orgasmed the way I do when someone is pleasing me. The reason I love sex and sexual acts is not simply because it feels great but because I am attracted and in love with the person I am doing it with. That vulnerable, raw, emotional connection makes everything from a kiss to sex more intense than anything I could possibly experience by myself.

Do guys actually ask girls out on official "dates"? The last couple of girls I was interested in were fine as long as we were just flirting. But when I asked them out (even just to lunch) . . . wow. You'd have thought I'd asked them to marry me, or something like that.
Anonymous

Everyone is different. For me personally I would much rather be on an official date, then to be in a flirting stage because I like set ground rules. I want to know if we are dating and looking to possibly become a couple or if we are just flirting and see if maybe we want to date or if we just want to keep things casual.

Why haven't you answered any anons?
Anonymous

I haven’t been on Tumblr much while being on bed rest, I am currently going through my messages and trying to answer the questions I have.

does your husband knows you have this blog?
Anonymous

Yes he does, and he supports it. There are a few times we have had disagreements about how I run the blog but once he realized I am not on here trying to be virtually sexual with other people and this blog is more about promoting sexual acceptance in women he became much more accepting of it.

Tips/pointers on giving my boyfriend head? I just want to make it the best for him, but don't want to ask him how he like it
Anonymous

Here are three guides. One is a hand job guide, one is a blowjob guide for beginners, and one is how to give an unforgettable blowjob. I think that anyone who is interested in perfecting their oral techniques should read and combine the three guides.

http://girlslovesextoo.tumblr.com/post/17103038260/how-to-give-a-great-handjob

http://girlslovesextoo.tumblr.com/post/9111385717/blow-jobs

http://girlslovesextoo.tumblr.com/post/17667796582/oral-sex-tips-and-tricks-how-to-give-an-unforgettable

What's your favorite movie
Anonymous

A Hard Day’s Night 

Kinkiest fetish you have?
Anonymous

I love being choked. Love, love, love it. For most people who are into kink this a very bland form of a fetish but it’s my most kinky.