To the girl who asked you about rape. I was raped when I was 16 years old. I'm almost 20 this January. If you can, go to meetings, it really helps. I miss my ex too at times. He was abusive as well. And it is very hard. But get some help. Meetings, therapy, etc. If you ever need to talk, I am here as well. I'm a great listener and advice giver. Wish you the best.
I have 22 years and am a virgin. A few months ago I met a man for a chat, he is from another country. He knows me physically, and we've been seeing for the camera. In another month, he will come to my country for his job (he is a surgeon) and wants us to meet in person. I have a desire to know him because I like but I am very complicated by the issue of my virginity, because I think it's important and I do not want to lose it so easily, but I want to have sex with this man .... what do I do??
Take it day by day, when he comes MEET IN A PUBLIC PLACE for a date of sorts and go from there. Don’t put pressure on yourself thinking that because he’s there you have to have sex with him because it is your choice. You’re obviously sexually attracted to him and that’s why you want to have sex with him, which is normal. Just again take it day by day and don’t rush into anything before you’re 100% ready :)
Hey this is a really weird question but I need the unbiased opinion of someone who doesn't know me- My ex raped me about a year ago, and though I keep busy and try to get along with my life, I think about him sometimes. I'm sad for him, and sometimes, I think I miss him.. or maybe I miss what he used to be? Is that normal? Am I weird or is something the matter with me? Why do I feel this way? Please be honest, I want to know. Most people say I should hate him, but I don't. What's wrong with me??
First off, I am truly sorry about what your ex did to you and it is normal what you’re feeling. Often times in abusive relationships the victim misses the good times, thinking sometimes even convincing themselves that it is possible to get them back because they weren’t always that bad person but rape and any other form of abusive is a pattern behavior, not one that stops and usually becomes worse. You need to focus on your happiness and remember that you deserve better than that and know you will have many more good times with someone knew and know you are normal for what you are feeling.
Shes the girl that believes that what comes around goes around. The one that hopes for a better day. The one that won’t give up on you. She’s the girl that’s unlike the rest. The one that spent her days smiling, and her nights crying. She’s the girl that would love to be loved. The one that looks so damn strong, but feels so weak. She’s the girl that picks herself up every time she falls ♥