Please tell me I am not the only one who when they walk in the door immediately just gets naked. It feels like my clothes just melt off my body as I cross the threshold from the outside world to my house.
Do you feel that consensual non monogamy counts as infidelity?
I do not even consider it being in the same category as infidelity. To me infidelity is cheating or sneaking behind someone’s back that you are supposed to be monogamous with and having sex or sexual actions with another person. Open relationships/marriages are on their own playing field for lack of a better description. They have a mutual agreement that their will be other partners involved. As long as both parties are consenting individuals to being with other people, then I do not consider it to be cheating at all.
No excuse, and a zero tolerance. If you want to cheat on someone, break up with them. I do not accept being high or drunk as an excuse either because you shouldn’t have put yourself in such a position to cheat if you respected your relationship and yourself. But that is just my view on the matter, a lot of people are more forgiving than I am but I have learned from my past relationships that cheating is rarely a one time occurrence and when they say they will change, they mean they will get better at hiding it from you but I have heard of some instances where the couple truly was able to move on from it.
how did you forgive and move on from your rape past cant seem to do it i hate them do you hate ours
I don’t think I could ever forgive the men who have raped me in my life, but I have learned to forgive myself for what happened. What I mean by that is I used to place so much blame on myself when it was their fault, not mine and nothing I could have done would have change the outcome. I learned to embrace what sex really is, the beauty of it compared to the early violent sex i had to endure along the way to discovering myself sexually. I use them as reminders and lessons to never lose the true meaning of sex, and the passion and intimacy that it SHOULD have that cannot be forced.
Tell me about morning sex, I'm a guy, but I wanna know how to make more pleasurable the sex at morning with my gf
For me, I love morning sex however I need that foreplay to fully enjoy it. My husband when we first got together just sorta woke me up by shoving his dick in me and it just made me pissed off to wake up to pain and so abruptly. My suggestion is kiss her nipples, suck on them, she’ll slowly start to wake up. Start working your way down eat her out a little bit and by then she will be awake and then you can make love to her. At least, this is how I love to have morning sex.