It could be he’s stretching you/using too many fingers, it could be that he’s going too hard and that’s causing the bleeding, it could be a lot of things. If it is painful and bleeding I’d recommend trying some new techniques and if he’s fingering you frequently maybe cutting back on how often he does it and letting your body relax so to speak.
That’s probably true, but I think that the people who run sex blogs are automatically assumed to be single, sleeping with anything and everything in sight, and with very little filter and I am the opposite. I started this blog single, but even then I had only had sex with 4 people at the time and now married I’ve only been with 5 which apparently is “unheard” of for sex blog owners. I like sex, whether I’m having it every day or not. It’s enjoyable to me both in an art form and a physical form. If this makes me boring, I can live with that.
It’s not a depressing reminder, it’s a reminder of a terrible place I was once in that I refuse to ever let myself get back to. A lot of people will be offended by this next statement, and most won’t understand it, but the best thing I ever tried to do was kill myself because surviving that made me realize just how much I am truly capable of and realize that I shouldn’t let anyone put me into that state of mind again. I was in a severely physically and emotionally abusive relationship for two years until I was so depressed I tried to kill myself and I woke up asking myself how I had possibly let myself get to this point, how I could have let a man ruin my full ride to college, and so much more. It put my past, present, and my much needed future into perspective.
It’s a bleeding heart, the flower. It was drawn by my roommate when I was in a mental hospital after trying to kill myself, wanted something to remember that time in my life and everytime I look at it, it reminds me of where I’ve come from and how much further I want to go.
It’s not my body, but I personally find natural beauty much more unique than something anyone can go and get surgically implanted in them. Even women who have had a mastectomy for breast cancer or other reasons, I think that their bodies are beautiful just the way they are. If someone wants breast implants I try to help them see what I see, but ultimately it is there decision and only they can live with it.
It depends on the mood I’m in. There are times when I want to make love to my husband and times when I want to fuck my husband, which to me are very different circumstances. When I fuck my husband I am simply horny, and want to fix my sexual cravings whereas making love is about passion and romance being used in a sexual environment.
I’m honestly not too worried about my tattoo on my stomach, I already have quite a few stretch marks from prepregnancy weight gain and loss that prevented me from showing it off but as long as my husband finds me attractive I’m good to go :) To hopefully prevent any new stretch marks and just to overall help with the itchy skin that comes with skin stretching I’ve been using coconut oil during the day and cocoa butter when I go to bed.
I wish. Sadly my husband and I are in a long distance marriage until he gets out of the Army at the end of April and before that morning sickness sadly made me want nothing to do with a penis :/ so no. Before we had sex 3-4 times a week.